03 · Friendship

Your Friendship Role

Who you become inside your closest circle.

12 questions3 minutes5 signals

Choose the answer that feels most instinctive. There are no right answers—and no clinical labels.

About this free test

What does this test explore?

Every friendship group develops an invisible structure. Someone creates plans, someone holds difficult stories, someone keeps the energy alive and someone remembers what the group has survived.

This test uses care, initiative, honesty, stability and playfulness to identify your most natural contribution. A role is not an obligation you must perform forever.

Five signals

01

Care

One part of the pattern used to match your answers with a NUMA result.

02

Initiative

One part of the pattern used to match your answers with a NUMA result.

03

Honesty

One part of the pattern used to match your answers with a NUMA result.

04

Stability

One part of the pattern used to match your answers with a NUMA result.

05

Playfulness

One part of the pattern used to match your answers with a NUMA result.

After your result

Use the pattern,
not the label.

Notice what friends receive from you and what you need returned. Strong circles do not depend on one person carrying every social function.

Questions people ask

What is a friendship role?

It is a recurring contribution such as connecting, supporting, challenging or energising your group.

Can I have more than one role?

Yes. NUMA shows your closest current pattern, while different friendships may reveal other parts of you.

How long does the test take?

There are 12 scenario-based questions and most people finish in about three minutes.